Why do people lie about being stalked?
Denisa Băileşteanu, I am a walking lie detector, sooner or later.
Being stalked is a serious threat to any person. It makes the victim frustrated, terrified, emotionally unstable. Some victims might seek help, others are too frightened to do that. But one thing is clear: being stalked feels horrible.
On the one hand, I personally don’t see why someone would blatantly lie about it, other than seeking attention. A stalked person who truly seeks help looks very frightened and speaks softly or whispers when he or she says it. One can easily see it. Most stalked people don’t seek help though, and it’s understandable. The stalker is shrouded in mystery most of the time and the victim is afraid that he is going to hurt him/her somehow.
People who believe they are stalked usually look behind or around them many times while walking or being outside their house.
On the other hand, the only reason someone would lie about being stalked would be attention seeking.
“Oh, look, someone is stalking me! This means I’m important and good-looking”. This thought sometimes comes with a spoken sentence: “I realized I’m being stalked, OMFG! I hate those bastards!”. When it’s a lie, it’s spoken (or shouted, so everybody can hear) without any trace of worry by the so-called “victim”. This is meant to bring attention to the liar. If someone thinks of bringing the matters to the police, the so-called “victim” refuses and says he’s got everything under control. This is often joined by the typical behavior of the liar (rapid blinking, over-gesticulating, opposite dominant hand moving etc).
Not all of these signs are obvious for what I stated here, a person who is a good actor and who is seeking attention is capable to play a very frightened person. There are also people who will talk about being stalked as if nothing happens, they usually believe the stalkers can do no harm to them.
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Dr. Phil repeatedly asked if I thought Brooke Shields was responsible for my sister's death.
A person charged with aiding and abetting or accessory is usually not present when the crime itself is committed, but he or she has knowledge of the crime before or after the fact, and may assist in its commission through advice, actions, or financial support.
Judge releases Mr. Rinaldi in less than a week based on likelihood of winning appeal. 'Kept illegally for 21 days longer.
Dear President O'Bama and First Lady
Vice President Biden,
Secretary John Kerry,
US Attorney General Loretta Lynch, &
NY States Attorney Eric Schneiderman.
Christmas 2013, I had requested the First Lady hang 26 original Hallmark ornaments on behalf of each life lost at SandyHook Elementary School.
For two weeks we were going to have them hang on a first tree, until we were told they didn't match the military theme.
Jillian Doody- assistant to VP Biden called me to tell me the bad news but had promised the ear of the WhiteHouse should we need a friend going forward.
We weren't believed.
Bill Ackman of Pershing Square offered us his Paul Bernstein of The Pershing Square Foundation as a mentor.
We weren't believed.
Newtown, CT introduced us to Rebecca Kowalski who lost her son Chase so we could build a center honoring the 26lives lost on 12/14/12.
We weren't believed.
We need your help because I don't know who else is doing as much as we are trying to STOPGunSchoolViolence.. we have the idea add support and you can create a movement.
I've asked Secretary Clinton for a pardon, but I'd appreciate one now. We did mean this as a joke to Secretary Clinton believing that the NYC courts were honorable and our innocents would be easily proved.
What we/I didn't count on was:
1. Blatant disregard for the truth. perjury.
2. When I asked my attorney to take the stand and to allow for a SandyHook mom, a SandyHook dad, an elected Newtown official, and a SandyHook memorial volunteer the following Monday, I didn't see the meeting of the minds.. (my attorney, the ADA Gregory, and the judge to leave court and decide to end the court on Friday so the judge could get back to his vacation..)
I had less than a month to prepare a year and a half long case with my attorney.. the original attorney assigned is on tape yelling at me the 3times met...
Ineffective/Abusive Council. + coercion.
Point blank, #SHELied.
State of NY vs. JR
Brooke Shields complained about seeing me in my neighborhood.
1. I was a fan age 13-15 and wrote fan letters. The way social media worked back in the 80's was to solicit fans to join their fan club and provided/requested even.. address to send fan mail. Mrs. Shields hired a team to answer and respond to all letters.
2. If they didn't want repeat writers they shouldn't have encouraged..
I wrote. They responded. A pen pal was forged and the mom befriended my dad and an abused little boy found justice when the two parents had the neighbor charged with sexual assault.
3. Fan letters stopped once Mrs. Shields showed kindness to a stranger..
1981- 1983 I was a fan.
1986- 1987 I was laid up and on my back after struck and hit by a drunk driver as a pedestrian. I broke my neck and was housebound without anything to do- bored beyond belief!!!
No letters to Ms. Shields. Why would I. I was no longer a fan and with Mrs. Shields and my parents having my abuser convicted, I was free- free to come out as a gay dude.
In 1988 I was invited to a restaurant where the manager had wanted me to meet the Shields. We met and took pictures- nothing like what Ms. Shields & Co. lied er.. suggested.
In 1992 I volunteered and began philanthropic work. I received letters of support from The White House, to Barbra Streisand. From Oprah to Annie Lennox. Brooke refused her support, and no communication followed. Why would there be. My life was about helping kids.
Actually, the admiration ended when her mom made Brooke Shields just Brooke to me. They extended themselves and provided contact information. If it wasn't amicable then 201.385.9849 would not have been given out.
They cared for a little boy and inspired me to do a life of non profit.
It wasn't until 2003 that I saw Mrs. Shields again and it was only after her husband said I had to meet Brooke... she thanked me for a gift and assured me she'd keep it on her bedroom dresser... it was in every sense a nice meeting. Had it not been friendly or kind then the place of occupancy wouldn't have been divulged.
The court did not discuss this, nor address it. 'even when the rest of the correspondence was used to make the most offensive correlation imaginable!
They denied the introduction of clearly a kindness and one that would clearly demonstrate good intentions. Or Lie#1...
Skip 10 years... in that time I did see a few Broadway shows- not all. And not when she played a friend's club. I don't know about you, but I didn't want to hear Brooke sing and despite my ability to go to every show had I wanted, I didn't attend 1. Again, Brooke cannot and should not sing! She claimed I sat in the front row. Lie#2.
If I saw 10 front row shows, there would be a record of it.
She did a play called Vagina Mobologues. Lie#3. I did not go.. uhmmmm title explains it all.
The first time I saw Ms. Shields in the neighborhood, I was verbally assaulted after saying a hello. I then went to social media to complain- she did not like it! I saw her again and she was a bit more civilized. This time I received a hello back. The 3rd time I saw her in my neighborhood I offered her a gift her mother had given me years ago thinking it would be a kind gesture- she had just lost her mother and I had just lost my dad- I thought I was being kind. After all, my dad's belongings were more special, I thought something that used to be Mrs. Shields would be valued.. I was wrong. In actuality I was not only being kind, but was trying to demonstrate good will in the hopes she'd help in my 24/7 full time effort to #STOPGunSchoolViolence and my assistance to Newtown and the April 5th voted in project we first proposed in 2012... The last time I saw her in my neighborhood was when I offered her a parking spot. 4x in 30years????
• I've lived in the same cities as she since 1989- the only time I saw her in public was when she moved within 2blocks of me and I was on my way to do errands. (I provided pharmacy receipts coinciding with the 4Runner ins.. and Starbucks ap that catalogues my every purchase for the past 5 years. I only went to the Starbucks on Ms. Shields' street was when the Starbucks 6blocks away had wifi trouble... I chose to go 6 blocks away as opposed to Brooke's Starbucks 2blocks away for:
1. Better seating
2. Better wifi)
• I've parked in NYC for 5+ years, and the one time there's trouble was when I parked on her street.
I live in the WestvVillage and stay within 15x15 block radius... if I was interested in seeing Brooke I would've easily been present on her street and the only times I was was when I was sitting at a local Starbucks or going to my 20year pharmacy..
After parking on my street I playfully did write her name on my windshield because it was a good spot and was letting her know my car and it was also in fun. I came to find my car vandalized. I again went to social media. She again retaliated.
She then went to the police to complain. The DA then took a hold.
All Ms. Shields wanted was an order of protection.. she didn't know me- fine. For a year and a half they offered a disorderly conduct. If I was a stalker they wouldn't have had to take 2years to fabricate...
(I of course would not perjure myself to get away with something I didn't do... I have a 7year old who I was raising.. and we as men are our kids example! With integrity you could send me away for YEARS before I'd ever EVER perjure myself. Brooke did it to have a street free of an ex fan!)
If I was stalking her, she wouldn't have gone after my social media complaint when my car was damaged. In legal terms that's called retaliation NOT STALKING.
THE OVER AGRESSIVE ADA under the guise of the DA then used Ms. Shields celebrity to convict this ludicrous scenario that is both an embarrassment to the law but demonstrates at every turn a gross misuse of power.
Both Ms. Shields and her husband Mr. Henche perjured themselves in court and it can be easily explained given discovery provided by the prosecution.
In addition to the injustice within the DA's office, the police detectives at the 6th Precinct have had their own fun as well.
A detective is seen on surveillance tape assaulting my vehicle, punching in a window, and booting my car.- this was exactly 10:30 pm.. Another set of detectives are seen at 5:00pm or so sitting parked behind my car observing my car to intimidate me.
Both Mr. Henche and Ms. Shields perjured themselves in court and my defense attorney didn't prepare any defense and was not prepared to challenge. And when he did, it was a
a modest protest. It was an obvious back-room arrangement. The attorney also proceeded with less than a month of preparation
I charge abuse of power, ineffective council, and retaliation. Not to mention the ADA released documentation which when referred in court bore no resemblance to what had been released.
I was taken in custody on June 17, and released the following Friday based on winning an apellate court's vacating my stay based on the likelihood of my winning the appeal. The judge ordered my release, Rykers/The DA would not let me go.
Rykers stole money from my account.
The Legal Aid attorney was to have started my appeal, and has yet to do so.
The legal aids also proved ineffective council and the thee meetings were all recorded proving nothing was/had been done.
Brooke Shields and her husband perjured themselves and when you go line by line like I have, it's lie upon lie upon lie.
Last week I was on Dr Phil
Monday I'm meeting with Vanity Fair, OK magazine and American Necua Group
I trust you will listen to me because THE ONLY time I've been allowed to talk was on Dr Phil.
The court delayed delayed and delayed until they finally got a judge whom they preferred and despite his being on vacation, he presided over the court. Lastly, in my defense, I had a SandyHook mom, a SandyHook dad, and co-workers from Newtown that legitimized my work giving me reason to approach my neighbor's to support Newtown all the while trying to create a dialogue that would/could prevent future shootings. My attorney would not allow my testimony nor the previous mentioned solely because the judge did not want the case to run into Monday.
Celebrity injustice, gross misuse of power, and jailing the few people who are actually trying to do something reguardibg gun violence.
John M. Rinaldi
Btw, please tell Secretary of State Kerry that Mike and Kris Rinaldi's son John is seeking justice. My parents were friends of Secretary Kerry and his wife, and my dad took extra special care of Secretary Kerry's mom in Hudson, MA.
Please ask Jillian Doody, former aid to VP Biden, for her assistance as well. She offered the White House's assistance while we worked alongside Newtown.
And lastly, Secretary Clinton has applauded our work while canvassing in VT and NH. We even joked about my needing a pardon.
1. I lived in the same city as Brooke has for 30 years. The only time there was an issue was when I ran into a rude neighbor, complained on social media, and she complained in retaliation.
2. Had I not parked on Ms. Shields' street there would never have ever been a reason to have thought twice about me.
3. Brooke is a self proclaimed hyper vigilant who brags about when she's good, she's very good. And when she's bad she's horrid.
As Donald Trump would say,
Inside the Mind of Brooke Shields’ WRONGFULLY Convicted Stalker
On June 17, 2016, John Rinaldi was WRONGFULLY/ unethically convicted in New York of stalking and harassing actress Brooke Shields, and he was sentenced to 60 days in jail. (released by appellate court in less than a week based on the likelihood of my winning the appeal..). In his first ever TV interview, John claims he was wrongly convicted and that the case was based on a series of lies and coincidence. John claims the case has destroyed his life and he blames Brooke Shields for the death of his sister. Brooke claimed in court that John’s actions left her and her children terrified and violated. In a fascinating interview, Dr. Phil questions John about his actions and behavior.
I was invited to clear my name, yet was sand-bagged and was told I wasn't going to appeal the case on tv as promised, but Dr. Phil was going to shed light on the 'diabolical' mind of an accused stalker.
“And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music.”